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Help, my wife is a lesbian!

Published on : 21 August 2011 - 8:26am | By Marjolein Stoop (Photo: RNW)
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Love Matters

Love Matters

An RNW website about love, sex, relationships and everything in between.

Here you'll find loads of blush-free information to help you improve your sex life and stay healthy and happy.

After 25 years of marriage to a man, Anne discovered that she was a lesbian. Ed found out that his wife was bisexual after 12 years of marriage.

In the Netherlands, approximately 100,000 people already in heterosexual marriages discover at later date that they are homosexual. For them, coming out means a shock for the whole family. The Orpheus foundation brings these people together with others in the same situation. 

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Anonymous 19 January 2012 - 9:12am

I want you help me to advise about reality relationship with same sex woman.Can you please send me your articles or magazines lesbian/gay?

Anonymous 26 August 2011 - 4:22pm / nederland

I wonder how awoman can fill the position of aman ,i belief that what man can do woman can not do.God creation has No appeal at all en god created woman to be awoman and man to be aman.When god created adam he then created Eve or hawo in order to creat afamily.I belief there is nothing more than aman and awife..and those who think that there is more than that they must be wrong !!

Anonymous 25 August 2011 - 4:08pm

Weird.... about how many couples are we talking here. To what percentage of married couples does this happen? I mean, is it such a big problem??? May for the Dutch, too much time on their hands.

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knirb 24 August 2011 - 8:20am

Sad for both parties that such dilemmas are so easily preventable with access to information and a more open attitude to gays embracing their sexuality.

Anonymous 23 August 2011 - 1:20am / Lalaland

It is with true love as it is with ghosts; everyone talks of it, but few have seen it.

Mad Anthony 21 August 2011 - 11:15pm / USA

I am sad for you two, I find it hard to believe, even after being raised with a Lezbian mother, an two older gay brothers. I cannot understand how a woman may have a better orgasim with another woman than with a man.?

Hiram1 21 August 2011 - 5:35pm

"After 30 years I found out that I don't want to have sex anymore with anybody!"...Lalaland, are you saying for thirty years you had sex with anyone but now you have a preference with whom you have sex?

Anonymous 21 August 2011 - 4:52pm / Lalaland

How interesting! After 30 years I found out that I don't want to have sex anymore with anybody!

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