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Losing innocence the hard way

Published on : 23 November 2009 - 3:53pm | By Johan van Slooten
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Growing up is not always easy. It's never a smooth ride, as the erratic process of growth spurts and sudden changes can be very confusing. This goes for people as well as for communities. The small Dutch village of Urk has been cruelly reminded that it too is growing and that the outside world is closer than it thought.
 
The community is in a state of shock since a brutal murder last week in which 14-year-old Dirk Post was killed. Police have arrested three boys aged 12, 13 and 15, who, like Dirk, belonged to the same group of friends who would meet almost daily in the only skate park in Urk.
 
Why Dirk was killed remains unclear. It is just one of many questions that the 18,000-strong community is asking itself. The other question is: "Why here?"
 
The only quiet villages where people get killed are those in Agatha Christie novels, murders don't happen in an equally peaceful and quiet place like Urk. In its centuries-old history, so far only one murder was reported when an out-of-towner was stabbed to death by another non-Urker in the early 1990s. That was soon forgotten by the Urkers who didn't know the victim or his killer anyway. But now, the realisation that young, underage villagers might be responsible for killing a fellow Urker, whose family of shopkeepers is well known and loved in the community, is unbearable for most.
 
The village is famous for two things: its centuries-old fishing industry and its orthodox protestant lifestyle, closely guarded by the two dozen church denominations which are present. The close-knit community has always remained somewhat shielded from the rest of the world with its general "them and us" feeling towards people from outside the village. Some Urkers think it's always "them against us", as there are still quite a few misconceptions about Urk and its people. In Urk dialect, someone from outside the village is known as a "vreemdesnuut" - or "a stranger's face". You remain a "stranger's face" all your life, even if you've lived in Urk for decades.
 
Granted, this community atmosphere is unworldly at times. It has now clashed spectacularly with reality.
 
Perhaps it all has to do with growing up. Urk must come to terms with the fact that it's not the small, quiet village it once was. Modern times have brought in modern problems and challenges such as reported widespread drug and alcohol abuse, growing rivalry between youth groups, fewer people going to church and, simply, fewer people wanting to conform to the shielded life of the Urk community.
 
It's not a smooth ride. The Urkers have realised this in the most shocking way imaginable. Urk has lost most of its innocence over the past few days. It remains to be seen what the long term effects of Dirk's untimely and unnecessary death will be on this once very quiet and peaceful community.

Johan van Slooten is a journalist at Radio Netherlands Worldwide and lives in Urk.

Photo: Jaap Kramer at Flickr

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jasmin 24 November 2009 - 4:09pm / India
Sandrav, they take lessons from Hollywood action movies, video games/playstation etc..where the player can kill at will without remorse! For them killing is fun!
Steve 24 November 2009 - 11:38pm / USA
Jasmin, I am going to have to disagree with you here. Many children play these violent games and watch violent movies and do not believe killing is ok. It seems more often then not children that do things like this have very hectic (and possibly violent) home lives. Nothing excuses this behavior because even if the parents are the worst in the world, social norms can also be learned in school. I was just pointing out I think the strength of parent/child relationships has a much stronger impact on how a child will act than videogames and movies. For instance many of the perpetrators of youth violence in the US come from single parent households and are often unplanned/unwanted children.
sandrav 24 November 2009 - 3:49pm / Nederlands
I cannot understand how these children could kill as if it was nothing, what possesses them to take a life of another peer without so much as a thought that death is permanent? They cannot undo it, it is done and they will forever have blood on their hands.
jasmin 24 November 2009 - 9:47am / India
Thanks, Anonymous-from-Urk for supporting my views.I always get disturbed when I read about homicide, anywhere in the world. Though I have worked a lot with criminals, I fail to fathom the wrath a killer has within, to extinguish another life, be it a human or an animal. What comprises sin, has also eluded me. Apart from killing, for me, sin is a very arbitrary term, for what is sin in one culture, is perfectly ok in another culture. And, I appreciate,'Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so!', in this matter. Moreover, Lord Christ was compassionate and forgiving to all those who were declared sinners by the society, rather he saved them from public wrath. He was at a spiritual level, where he could ask forgiveness for his killers too! The only time, I felt his wrath was when he cleansed the temple of pharisees. Lord Jesus was more of spiritual person, than one who was shackled by religious dogma. I quote here from http://www.bible-history.com/pharisees/PHARISEESThe_Paradox_of_the_Phari... ''One of the greatest ironies of scripture is the rejection of Christ by the stewards of God's word. Their extensive knowledge of the word of God did not bring them to faith in The Living Word of God, but rather they're hatred of God was exposed. It is written in the Prophets: `They will all be taught by God.' Everyone who listens to the Father and learns from him comes to me. John 6:45 In all their studies of Scripture, they did not listen to the Father, or learn from him. Something vital was missing inside of them. Perhaps they were missing honesty. Had they been honest with God's word, and with themselves they would have felt a constant need for mercy and forgiveness rather than pride and self sufficiency as they spent their time learning. They would have been prepped for a Savior like many of the common people who had much less Bible knowledge, but applied honesty and humility to what they knew. To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everybody else, Jesus told this parable: "Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: `God, I thank you that I am not like other men--robbers, evildoers, adulterers--or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.' "But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, `God, have mercy on me, a sinner.' "I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." Luke 18: 9-14 The Pharisees as a Jewish sect provided a great service in teaching and preserving the word of God, how tragic that they were not able to receive it's most important benefit for themselves the humility required to embrace their Messiah and Savior.'' God blees all with compassion and the wisdom.
Anonymous 23 November 2009 - 7:13pm / Urk Holland
Hallo Jasmin, I fully agree with you, but with one restriction, we must know the enormous impact sin has and the salvation of Christ for us. greetings
jasmin 23 November 2009 - 4:41pm / India
It is indeed a great loss for the family, and very shocking and traumatic for the peaceful Urk community.However, what is more shocking is that the young killers too are from the same community. Somewhere along the way, this generation has separated from the main group. However, Johan, I appreciate that your community is the way, you describe so beautifully. They don't need to grow up and realise what the outside world is about, rather, the outside world needs to realise that their way of growth is unclean, polluted, violent and dangerous for the people. The outside world needs to take lessons from Urkians about how to live life. In my view the outside world is pathetic and the media has played a role of the villian by showing a wrong way of life as good, cool and happening to the impressionable youngsters. We need to introspect and put our world in order, and let the Urk remain, the lil paradise it is! My condolences to the family and the community. God bless!

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