Growing up is not always easy. It's never a smooth ride, as the erratic process of growth spurts and sudden changes can be very confusing. This goes for people as well as for communities. The small Dutch village of Urk has been cruelly reminded that it too is growing and that the outside world is closer than it thought.
The community is in a state of shock since a brutal murder last week in which 14-year-old Dirk Post was killed. Police have arrested three boys aged 12, 13 and 15, who, like Dirk, belonged to the same group of friends who would meet almost daily in the only skate park in Urk.
Why Dirk was killed remains unclear. It is just one of many questions that the 18,000-strong community is asking itself. The other question is: "Why here?"
The only quiet villages where people get killed are those in Agatha Christie novels, murders don't happen in an equally peaceful and quiet place like Urk. In its centuries-old history, so far only one murder was reported when an out-of-towner was stabbed to death by another non-Urker in the early 1990s. That was soon forgotten by the Urkers who didn't know the victim or his killer anyway. But now, the realisation that young, underage villagers might be responsible for killing a fellow Urker, whose family of shopkeepers is well known and loved in the community, is unbearable for most.
The village is famous for two things: its centuries-old fishing industry and its orthodox protestant lifestyle, closely guarded by the two dozen church denominations which are present. The close-knit community has always remained somewhat shielded from the rest of the world with its general "them and us" feeling towards people from outside the village. Some Urkers think it's always "them against us", as there are still quite a few misconceptions about Urk and its people. In Urk dialect, someone from outside the village is known as a "vreemdesnuut" - or "a stranger's face". You remain a "stranger's face" all your life, even if you've lived in Urk for decades.
Granted, this community atmosphere is unworldly at times. It has now clashed spectacularly with reality.
Perhaps it all has to do with growing up. Urk must come to terms with the fact that it's not the small, quiet village it once was. Modern times have brought in modern problems and challenges such as reported widespread drug and alcohol abuse, growing rivalry between youth groups, fewer people going to church and, simply, fewer people wanting to conform to the shielded life of the Urk community.
It's not a smooth ride. The Urkers have realised this in the most shocking way imaginable. Urk has lost most of its innocence over the past few days. It remains to be seen what the long term effects of Dirk's untimely and unnecessary death will be on this once very quiet and peaceful community.
Johan van Slooten is a journalist at Radio Netherlands Worldwide and lives in Urk.
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